Connor Jessup and Miles Heizer (part 5) (2024)

Keep on sanctifying Connor and vilifying Miles here…

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[quote] I’m late but I love you, you’re good, you make me better, happy v+1 day 💚

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I think the only thing that will satisfy everyone that he is “out” is if Miles does a chaturbate show with Keegan and Womp.

tear up yer mussies, gurls

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The BUILD host looks like a silver Ryan Rose.

I hope Brenda doesn't read the comments on that Gay Times Insta post.

Daddy is home

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He can't have grown that much facial hair in a day. A lategram, I guess.

R8 Christ, does the nail polish match the blanket? There’s gay and then there’s super gay.

The jacket is too loose fitting to conclude anything about his body. The comments about him self medicating make me sad.

If he's on the spectrum, public attention will fuck him right up in the long run, no matter how much he thinks he wants it.

Is "self-medicating" code for "he's a junkie"?

They seem like they’re boring in bed. The sex can’t be that great.

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R14 I feel like two hot, famous 25 year olds would have ditched each other at this point if the sex was bad. God knows they could both find dick elsewhere if they wanted to.

Both their wikipedia pages have removed any referencing to them dating.

I’ll only believe they are gay when they go on Chaturbate and fuck like bunnies.

R11 Who says he's self medicating?

It's interesting that Brandon Flynn (Miles' ex) is following Connor.

Through Miles' lens...

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R21 Brandon started following him yesterday... 👀 Let's see if Connor reciprocates

Miles McMillan (Quinto's ex) made a Facebook post about it.

R25 Well? Do share

Miles certainly has the experience to teach these boys a thing or twelve.

Brandon does seem like the type to be a homewrecker

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R29 Oh, he’s a wrecker alright.

r28 I've always had the feeling that Miles started early. Maybe too early.

R26 I meant he posted about Connor making his relationship public on Instagram. This has nothing to do with the Brandon Flynn thing.

R27 He literally just posted a link to the popbuzz article with the comment "Congrats name twin and Connor 👏"

It would probably be just 2+ threads if they weren't always getting paywalled.

I doubt Brandon following Connor means anything. The whole Hollywood gay scene is so incestuous. Miles M dated Quinto, who allegedly had a fling with Brandon, who dated Miles H, who’s now dating Connor... you can connect all of them by six degrees of separation.

so who's the bottom? Connor or Miles?

R28 Whichever one you want to be... unless they talk about it themselves, there's not much more to add that hasn't already been discussed over the past year and a half since DL'ers first started to realize they were a couple.

From various suggestive comments Connor has made, I get the impression that he is mostly into oral sex.

R41 And what comments would those be? Or are you just staring at his lips and projecting your fantasies?

Am I mistaken was it not Miles who homewrecked Brandon Flynn? And where is Brandon following Connor? Twitter, Instagram...?

R41 Lol you’re projecting, he’s said no suggestive comments about anything whatsoever

I love how people are posting “congratulations” in response to the Valentine’s post... congratulations for what? Dating?

I love how people are posting “congratulations” in response to the Valentine’s post... congratulations for what? Dating?

No. Congratulations for them coming out as a couple, and for Miles indirectly coming out of the closet.

I'm convinced Miles is a Top idk why

Brandon has always been creeping on miles, needs to get over him

R46: Congratulations for loving openly when most gays in Hollywood hide or even worst pretend they are straight

Miles is probably a top because he’s to ashamed to bottom.

Really, r52?

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Miles is a nasty hoe

Miles left a cute “hehe” comment on Connor’s new IG photo.

R52 This man is a top to you?

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Tommy Dorfman always referred to Miles as his wife.

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R58 Tommy seems very sweet and supportive, he's always liking and commenting on Connor's posts. He's probably happy Miles found someone like him

There was a short time between Brandon and Matt where I think Miles was fucking if not dating Tommy. I remember there was a lot of talk about it on here because they were all over each others IG accounts for a month or so.

R60 They were never fucking - Tommy is married and has been for a while. Tommy and Miles are just gal pals.

Miles and Tommy...

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Tommy's marriage tells you nothing about who he may or not be fucking.

Is Jacob Bix still with Troye Sivan? Tommy posted some pics of Jacob some months back that made me think his interest was more than platonic.

Speaking of new boyfriend, did "Gabe" from Locke & Key ping to anyone else? Apparently he got in trouble for liking tweets with anti-transgender, fatphobic, and racist sentiments - which, if anything, makes him sound like a datalounger. Maybe he Connor's cropping of that pic was a pointed action...

R38 more like six degrees of jizz

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There was also speculation that Sabrina Carpenter was dating Corey Fogelmanis... Maybe she has a thing for us.

R71 A short film called Fragments, Connor plays a gay hypochondriac.

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R72 Fragments is a truly awful short film. Connor must have taken the role for the sole purpose of making out with hottie Douglas Smith, who was on the second season of Big Little Lies.

Connor and Douglas Smith

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Thanks!

Connor and Taylor John Smith

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R68: Dating a castmate is very Disney, they like to promote their shows with some adorable couples (even most of them are pretty fake)

R57 Does he also mean: when you don't like your boyfriend's ex-boyfriend? lol

R79 He can’t since Brandon follows him now :/

I think that's what the poster above you meant: It was a "Ho, why is you here?" for Brandon.

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r79 You're reading too much into it.

R56, His eyes look a little sore and his energy seems rather low like he's bummed out about something. What's going on there?

R65, R66, This is The Datalounge, and we don't play make-believe. Save that shit for Tumblr.

R84 Miles is just like that in most of his interviews, and he smokes a lot of weed - or at least used to

R87 ... that we would prefer to have without fan girls and their obsessions. This isn’t a forum for them.

Has Connor become an American citizen yet? Which Democrat would he want for president?

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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Miles is totally one of those #hotboysforbernie hipsters.

R92 Wrong. Connor would have undoubtedly been part of the Yang Gang.

I just want to suck both of them at the same time. Hell, I'm not much of a bottom but I would let them DP me.

Connor looks amazing here. He needs to dress like this more often. He usually dresses like a slob, lol.

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That jacket is awful. He looked better when he wore a suit on BUILD, while promoting "American Crime."

R97 I like the jacket, this was such a good look for him

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R98 I like the jacket too.

Aw this is cute. I can’t help but think that she has a bit of a crush on him... anyone remember those IG stories (the wrap party?) when Connor was a bit drunk and she was all over him but it was pretty endearing. Maybe someone saved them

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His nails match the interviewers socks, did they colour coordinate? Lol. Cute fox, too. Is that embroidery or a sticker?

Maybe Connor can be Emilia's "Mae." I'm so used to actors pushing 30 while playing teenagers that I didn't even think that Jones is really 17.

It seems like Connor is in NY for the week but he’s only done two interviews so far... I hope we see him in more soon.

R102 I enjoyed her performance on the show, she’s a very natural actress. Weird that they chose a 26 year old to play her love interest

R103 Why do you think that? I figured he probably went to Toronto since he was already in NY

r103 Is Miles with him?

R100 Are you suggesting that Connor may have cheated on Miles?with an underage girl? 🤮

R104 It’s pretty rare that teens actually play teens. Funnily enough Miles was an example of that on Parenthood... he started when he was like 13 and was 17 in the college episodes with a 23/24 year old actress playing his girlfriend.

R105 Because Darby Stanchfield is in NY now too, it’s probably a full promotional tour.

R107 No? No one is saying that lol. Read the reply again

R110 sorry,I've misunderstood lol

Where is the interview where Connor said Crouton was his boyfriend's dog? Can't find it anywhere.

R113 It’s the Boo Crew podcast.

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Some people here thought Connor shared an apartment with his friend Ashley in Toronto but in the BUILD interview he implies he lives alone.

R98 The pants are awful, though.

R115 Agreed. He got the upper half right. Too bad about the ugly pants😂

R114 Yes he has his own place, with a garden even! He mentioned that Ashley lives down the street from him in that interview

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R106 Yes, Miles is/was with him in NY - he mentioned in an interview that they went to see Isabella Rosellinni's NYC show together for their Valentine's evening.

R118 No, Isabella's show on Valentine's Day was in LA at the Lodge Room Highland Park.

In LA on Valentine's Day (with Stephen Dunn). Connor never said he was in NY with Miles then R118

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R120 Can you not read the captions in your own link?! The 'lil Closet Monster reunion' for vday was at Isabella's Link Link Circus show in NYC, just as Connor said in the Buzzfeed interview below:

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R121 Can you read? Her Valentine's show was at the Lodge Room Highland Park in LOS ANGELES. Valentine's Day is on the 14th of February while that interview was on the 17th. He never says they saw her show in NY. How the fuck could they be in two cities at once?

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R124 spit roast?

Brandon followed Connor

What would Brandon Flynn want with Miles? Are they gonna use a double-headed dildo and go ass to ass?

If Brandon starts taking pics with the pups, that won't be good.

r127 Brandon was Miles' bf about 3 years ago.

Miles is the top?

I think it's nice if Miles and Brandon are on good terms. Not everything has to be handbags at dawn.

r130 I think he might be, even though he's always seemed like a bottom.

Miles may be a top, but that Valentine’s photo that Connor posted confirms he’s definitely the little spoon.

Miles and Connor will spit roast Brandon.

No, they'll feed him soup and herbal tea on the patio to Connor's garden.

r135 That sounds lovely!

Connor’s costar Emilia had to change the caption on her IG post from “The look of love” to “Brother love “ because too many of the comments were shipping her and Connor...

I can't figure Brandon out. Is he a homewrecker or an attention seeking famewhore or both? He is hella sketchy and he has a past of hooking up with famous men just for the attention and fame. First Miles, then Sam Smith, then Richard Madden, recently Zachary Quinto and now he possibly wants to get back together with Miles? The timing is suspicious af too. He hasn't liked any of Miles' posts in like forever, now that Miles is in the limelight because of Connor, all of a sudden he starts liking his posts? I just don't trust him.

Brandon has a hungry hole. It doesn't have to be any deeper than that.

Brandon is dating Tommy Petroni currently. Maybe it's innocent - he reached out to Miles and Connor to congratulate them which is why Miles and him seem friendly all of a sudden (well, going by the fact that Miles liked his recent IG post)

Weren't Brandon and Miles pictured hanging out between takes on the 13W set not long ago? I don't follow the show, but I saw commentary that they hadn't been pictured together like that in years - if they were in group shots, they'd be at opposite sides to one another.

They were friendly at the cast celebration thing in August, maybe it's water under the bridge for them nowadays. Connor definitely met a bunch of Miles' costars since most of them started following Connor on IG over a year ago, Brandon only started following Connor a few days ago so maybe they haven't met yet

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Connor is definitely in Toronto, not NYC. He's gonna be doing some morning show interviews for Locke & Key today.

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r145 How are the fangirls going to handle that? There's no room for denial there.

Well, I guess the New York Times should be a good enough source for Wikipedia.

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Connor has been quite the little promoter, I don’t recall other Netflix shows getting this much of an extended coverage after they dropped weeks ago. And there’s been no announcement of renewal yet has there? Is Connor trying to insure it’s success since it’s his first big project post coming out to prove his sexuality isn’t negatively impacting his leading man potential? And is it Netflix PR or his own who usually puts these things together? I would almost expect personal team compared to the nonexistent press tour that Brandon does for 13 Reasons.

It makes sense. Grindr is full of slippery types. Of course, people fake things on Instagram, but it's nevertheless easier to research people who are on it.

Love that R145. He finally answered the question we’ve all been asking! Connor really delivers. (Also love that he was the aggressor.)

Connor has a good gaydar. He knew Miles was gay even though Miles wasn't out.

WTF is Connor wearing?

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When did Joey and Miles shoot "Love, Simon"? Was it pre 2018?

Overgrown Child Chic?

Here's the entire interview.

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Love, Simon came out spring 2018, which is when Miles and Connor started hanging out according to the timeline... since it seems Connor didn’t know Miles in real life (“internet crush”), he most likely saw the movie, thought Miles was cute, asked Joey if Miles was out, then slid into the DMs.

But is she a DL fave?

I guess he's a big Calvin & Hobbes fan, r154.

r160 As the son of a PFLAG mom, she's a fav of mine!

R164 No one called your precious Brandon a whore, the poster called him a FAMEwhore, which is a reputation he earned when he dumped Miles for Sam Smith and took those ridiculous photos of eating his mouth in public all for the purpose of seeking attention. Those photos essentially made him a joke (they’re the first thing you see when you google him), and the fact that he calls the paps everytime he even takes a shit near another famous gay guy cements that.

Why does Brandon Flynn elicit such strong feelings at the Data Lounge?

r162 I'm starting to think Miles will never come out and say publicly that he's gay. He won't hide it, and he'll let Connor tell the media he's his boyfriend, but it won't go beyond that.

For prostitutes, they sure like to dress like 12 year olds from 1992. I wonder if that's part of the sales pitch?

Does anyone else feel like Connor’s comment about Grindr makes it seem like he’s used it before (and doesn’t seem to like it)? If so, gonna need the Toronto DLers to step up and provide details.

R170 That situation is not ideal... Connor deserves better than that

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Imagine being in a relationship with someone who won’t publicly acknowledge you as his boyfriend. Can it last?

Brandon can't be trusted. He's an attention whore, always dating famous men and always splashing them all over social media. He cares way too much about fame and publicity. I won't be shocked if Brandon breaks them up. No way he only followed Connor and started liking Miles' pics because they are all of a sudden cordial. He has an ulterior motive for sure. Just wait and see. I know I'm right. I'll be the first to say told you so.

R176 Miles has to state the fact that he's gay and/or in a relationship with Connor at some point, or else Connor is left looking stupid as hell. What's going on right now isn't remotely healthy.

Miles seems very self-serving. He's very cat-like while Connor is the human embodiment of a puppy

Miles has no occasion to give any interviews at the moment, and he's not the kind of person who talks about his private life (or anything, really) on social media. Should he be required to write a personal essay about his lovelife just because his boyfriend is talking about their relationship in public?

R179 Makes me wonder if Miles will get more vocal when 13RWY starts doing the whole publicity tour for its final season....

R182 Because Connor is beautiful Miles won’t post him on his IG...?

R183 No. Miles is beautiful which is why Connor doesn’t give a fuck about whether he makes public declarations about their relationship on his Instagram. Maybe Connor is in love with him and isn’t asking for anything in return. It’s really that simple.

R184 I guess that could be it. Maybe Connor is just another boyfriend to him. In that case it seems cruel to be so involved with Connor’s family and friends if he’s planning on it to end fairly soon or when/if he finds someone else

I wonder if Connor used to jack off to Miles on "Parenthood" when he was on "Falling Skies".

Not surprising that they never met before Connor asked him out. I can’t imagine these two running in the same social circles.

Throwback to when they started following each other...

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The DL was ON IT.

I’m slightly surprised they met via Instagram when they had at least two co-stars (one gay) in common around the same time... but I guess Connor could use that to get his attention.

Daddy AF 🥰

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My bf 🥰

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Connor would make a perfect RuPaul’s Drag Race judge. Miles needs to help him get on the show.

R193 Xavier Dolan, Tommy Dorfman and Mae liking his post immediately is very cute

Miles is a Drag Race fan, so he'd probably want to be on the show himself lol. He'd be a good judge for an acting challenge. Contestants could act-out storylines from 13 Reasons Why.

R198 Miles was already a guest judge on Drag Race...

R200 Connor already got two years out of Miles... he ain't no fool!

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R199, Damn, how did I miss that?! Lol

R203, I was barely awake during that season so I must've missed his appearance. Poor guy, was he really that bad? Did he ever respond to the criticism?

R207 It’s very interesting, considering Connor is basically the prototype of a Dream Boyfriend it’s strange that Miles doesn’t want to show him off whatsoever. Connor deserves better 🤷‍♂️

Is Miles supposed to do a special interview, just to confirm that Connor Jessup is his boyfriend for the benefit of a bunch of old DL queens; even though Connor already announced it on IG and has talked about Miles in interviews, including in the New York Times?

r186 I used to jack off to Miles on Parenthood when Connor was on Falling Skies!

R209 People are finding the one-sideness of it all a bit peculiar, Miles hasn’t acknowledged his relationship with Connor on any platform

R213 Why would Miles need defending? Connor is the one closest to him and if he's happy with the relationship, what's it to you?

R213 Miles has been a main character on two hit television shows back to back, and has had a steady paycheck since he was 13... but please, tell us how not releasing a coming out essay will tank his career.

Sorry, but unless Miles films an autobiographical documentary called "My Coming Out Story - A Homosexual's Journey Into Being Gay" and puts it on Netflix within the next month, he is a closet case.

R129, we will also need an Access All Areas behind the scenes "Making Of" the documentary, to include extensive blood, DNA, dental and other biometric checks - all notarized - so that we can be sure it's really him.

Some people here are plain weird.

Someone updated Miles’ Wikipedia again.

R222 ... Which will be removed soon enough because a Wikipedia article can't state a relationship status that the person in question haven't commented on or explicitly acknowledged.

It can if the relationship can be sourced with a New York Times article, r223.

Throwback to Miles at his hottest

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There are murmurs on other boards that Miles’ ex Brandon is going through recovery for substance abuse issues... interesting that he and Miles both seem to be in a place where they’re leaving their party days behind. Maybe Brandon is inspired, which is why they seem so much friendlier these days.

Madden will fuck you up.

Ughhh, I didn't know Brandon was in rehab...I hope it was not Madden who turned him into drugs.

Still need details on what Connor’s Toronto Grindr profile looked like (and if it’s still active...)

You can be it featured: 💅🏻

So even after updating their Wikipedias with a valid source (the New York Times article) both Mile's and Connor's pages were wiped again of any mention of their relationship because it's "gossip". I give up.

You should give up carying about Wikipedia.

*caring

Seems like fangirls or Mile's management is just trying to suppress the truth. *shrug*

They're trying to suppress the truth on Wikipedia but not The New York Times? Get a grip, concern trolls.

R235 Are the fangurls still holding out hope Miles will come out with a denial? I doubt "management" is still fighting a lost battle.

R238 Cara and Ashley are a perfect parallel to this relationship, actually.

R208 Preach! This is a one sided relationship and Connor deserves better.

R209 NOBODY said he needs to do an interview. Please stop with your strawman arguments. We just want him to actually acknowledge Connor as his boyfriend, that's it. So far that hasn't happened. They've been together for two years and he still won't publicly acknowledge that Connor is his boyfriend. Connor deserves better.

R200 No.

R241 I doubt Connor cares when he's having sex with his boyfriend.

Didn't Conner post a Valentine's pic of both him and Miles? These actors owe you nothing, so keep bitching about what you think you deserve. You sound like petty fucking dinosaurs.

Miles has put Connor on his IG feed in the past, just like he did for Matt and Brandon. Does Miles ever "show off"? He's a reticent person in public. Will he change for DL? I doubt it...

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R211 Exactly. He cares too much about money, career and fame. It's sad.

R212 They're not playing a game. Miles is just being a cunt. He won't come out, whether as gay or as Connor's boyfriend, because he won't risk his career. He's a fucking coward. Connor deserves so much better. Miles might be beautiful on the outside, but I'm not liking what I see from the inside.

R235 I doubt his management would care about wikipedia when there's a New York article outing his relationship with Connor. This smells fangirls. Those are the ones who usually care the most about wiki.

Did Miles scrub all the old "Clipka" stuff off his Instagram? Seems like a lot of old stuff are not longer there.

R253 No there's still stuff with her from back when they were friends on his IG and Twitter. Miles has deleted a lot of stuff since 13RW took off though, he use to post a lot of nonsense and party pics.

Someone made a video of deleted pics, or so they claim.

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R250 Did I miss Miles coming out or explicitly acknowledging his relationship with Connor on any platform? Or has it just been from Connor's end? If the latter, Miles isn't publicly out.

R244 Who's Conner? Connor's evil twin?

So, is Miles closeted? If Connor posted that Valentine's day post but captioned it differently - say, as a break up post. Wouldn't he be accused of outing Miles? Can someone be outed and remain closeted? I guess outting doesn't exist as a concept any more, by that logic.

It's called being glass closeted R258

Even if one half of the couple speaks on it to the New York Times? Come, come now.

The Miles hate in here is OFF the rails.

R260 Yes, even then. Look up Cara and Ashley's relationship, it had a very similar dynamic to what's going on with Connor and Miles. It was only made official (Wiki, etc) when Ashley finally acknowledged it regardless of how much Cara spoke about their relationship in interviews prior to that.

So people thought Cara was lying? People think Connor his lying? Or just deranged fans who shouldn't be given any thought?

No. But Miles has to explicitly acknowledge the relationship before it can be stated as fact on his Wikipedia, an article centered around Connor doesn’t count regardless if it's the NY Times or not. Miles leaving the occasional green heart emoji on Connor's posts doesn't count.

Steer clear of goths and anyone who claims to be one. They're navel gazing drama queen assholes.

You’ll all have to wait until at least May, when the new season of 13RW drops.

Yeah, Miles is the drama queen in this scenario. Not the people obsessed with Wikipedia.

R268 The DL sees nerdy Connor as a stand-in for themselves - it’s been said many times that he seems like such a DLer that they suspect he posts here. They’re now obsessed with having Miles acknowledge that Connor is his boyfriend because it somehow affirms a fantasy of having a pretty twink acknowledge them. They will not sleep until Miles makes a public declaration on his Instagram account, and until that day, they’ll go on and on about how Connor is too good for him and deserves better.

A former child actor who isn't aware of their appeal? Sure, Jan.

That rule is a little absurd. This is not speculation, its his boyfriend giving an interview. Miles could deny it, he didn't so the discussion is over

I for one applaud Wikipedia for maintaining its integrity and demanding journalistic multiple sources before stating facts. Stop picking on Wikipedia because it doesn’t verify your fanstan gay relationships.

Intruding fan girls on DL don't understand the concept of primary sources. It won't be on Miles' Wiki until he explicitly acknowledges the relationship, end of. The fact that you're diddling yourselves over the thought of all these young gay couples is weird.

Wikipedia ain't the press.

This thread has gone to shit.

You people are fucking losing it

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If there is a sex tape released with penetration will Wikipedia confirm the relationship?

R281 In what source does Miles acknowledge his relationship with Connor? I must have missed it. I thought only Connor had posted and spoken about them so far.

Great! So I can tell a news source that I'm in a loving relationship with Sebastian Stan and that's enough for it to be included on his Wiki. Unless he explicitly dismisses it it's true 😈

Are you being interviewed by The New York Times?

Let's not drag this silliness out any longer - just show us the Wikipedia rule which says only the subject of the article counts as a source when it comes to relationships.

I agree with the person above who said maybe Connor will acknowledge it around the premiere of 13RW. It will get him (and the show) a lot of extra publicity. Just like with Connor when he acknowledged it right after the premiere of L&K.

R291 Why would Connor care about 13 Reasons Why press?

I've heard of boyfriend twins, but "Connor & Connor" is ridiculous.

R293 LOL, good catch! I obviously meant MILES will acknowledge it when 13RW premieres, just like Connor did with the L&K premiere.

I wouldn't bank on it. It benefits Connor, less so Miles.

R293: Are really people that blind that think they look alike? if they were a black couple and people say something like that they will be accused of being racist (and it would be true). There are couples that look alike, but that' not their case

The Valentine's post now has 100k likes.

It's weird how that Ryan Philippe post has only 13k likes. People don't scroll back a bit when they start to follow someone?

Does Connor's manager always lurk like that? He seems to have done so when Miles met RuPaul at an awards show. I think he was also there when Miles did Ru's podcast.

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Part 6 since the OP forgot to link it before creating a new thread

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